If you are a parent and you have been wronged in Domestic Court when it has come to Fighting for Your Children and Domestic Violence in the Court system. I want to know your experiences and up front you will know mine. We Must speak up to make change, and right now I need your help.
Wednesday, November 17, 2010
One Year of Straight Hell
The Complaints started again, and by this time my ex felt confident enough to ask for joint visitation. He took me back to court. I now had an attorney, I really could not afford. We petitioned the court for what is called a Children and Family Investigator. I was referred to a CFI named Adoree Blair, so not knowing much about her but on word of another, who I trusted, I asked for her. From the moment she began on the case things didn't seem right. At first the boys were telling her everything, how they were hit, called names, spat on, ect. She had spoken to the Teachers and most importantly she had spoken with The Children's counselor. The Children told their counselor everything. She took the visits with their father away for a week and then one day, my husband had to work and our second car broke down. I let the CFI and my ex know that he would have to pick up and drop off that day, and he did not want to. He did not show up that day and instead of having to take responsibility for not doing what he could to spend that time with his children, Adoree patted him on the back and gave him a make up day, and the following week gave the kids back to my ex for the normal regular visits. It was a very tough time on the children, and every time I would point something out to the CFI she would either say the child change the story, which would usually happen when questioned at their father's house or that my ex denied it. Which always happened. Then the CFI just didn't listen to the children's complaints at all. within 2 months she came up with this theory of the dead fish. Which in a nutshell, she claimed the children were telling me crazy stories to make me feel better. Usually when Children get caught in a lie, don't they stop??? During the whole case she would manipulate the kids words, or make up an excuse, just so there was nothing bad about their father. The more I fought her the more she turned the case against me. Threatening my sanity, saying that I alienated the father from the children. Finally My Son came to me with a bruise on him and I called the police. A case worker got involved and spoke to Adoree Blair, and after she spoke to the case worker, Adoree changed and even added negative lies to her report to make me look terrible, and she did not stick to any of the facts the case worker actually gave her. She manipulates her power as a child and Family Investigator. Not because it's right, but because she has a single belief that the children should have both parents in their lives NO MATTER WHAT. Adoree Blair lied in court, and without giving me a chance to fight. They believed every lie she gave. The Magistrate was a former CFI and did not allow me to disprove Adoree Blair. My Children are now separated majority of the time, because of one main cause Money. My ex didn't want to pay. The CFI knew this and even wrote me an email stating things would be so much easier when Child support is lowered. If that's not agenda, I do not know what is. It is easier to cause danger, and on going Domestic Violence, to two Children rather then make a man take responsibility for his actions, get better, get to know the children that He abandoned, and lastly help support the kids he made and didn't pay for from 2004-2008. Details of How I was Raped in Court to Follow..............
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Oh dear -- Adoree Blair testified for Senate Bill 09-069 which extended the quasi-judicial immunity of Colorado Regulatory Statute 12-43-215(7) to Parenting Coordinators. She testified for it because she is one -- and wanted the immunity.
ReplyDeleteAs of right now, no matter what any Court-appointed expert does, they have quasi-judicial immunity under Colorado Statue. They can't be touched. They can lie, misrepresent statements of professionals and children, coerce children behind closed doors, make false allegations of child abuse, commit perjury, and get away with it. DORA, FBI, CBI, DA, Attorney General, Sheriff's Office, State Court Administrator's Office -- all decline jurisdiction. And once you become a targeted parent -- you're targeted.
See many of our complaints at http://www.knowyourcourts.com/ColoPsychBoard/ColoPsychBoard.htm
There are always two sides to a story, as every CFI knows. It is important that you ask the other person (whose name is used; you note this blogger did not have the courage to use her own) for the real truth, which is pretty much opposite what is stated here. Her children won but she felt she lost, even though they are better off. That is why you get her story. Adoree Blair is a good, child-centered advocate - she'd be glad to talk you through how well the children are doing. Be careful what you believe until you have investigated - as all good CFIs know!
ReplyDeletePlease contact me via email Bluephants@Yahoo.com. I've been looking for someone to share my story with. need your help desperately!
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ReplyDeleteHow pathetic. You write a blog about how horrible your ex is, yet oddly when you have car problems and need him he's somehow fit as a co-parent. What do you bet there is more to the story. I'm guessing Ms. Blair did her best to assist in what is clearly a high-conflict divorce where you can't accept that he is the father of your children. Perhaps your children would be better served by you taking the high road in YOUR co-parenting. Attacking Ms. Blair is reprehensible. You appear to be just another mentally ill person who can't accept the concept of co-parenting. I'm betting the father of your children isn't a convicted child abuser or criminal. Perhaps your children would benefit from you accepting the fact that you had children with this man and you making the best of a difficult situation. No, instead you're somehow the victim. Go get help.
ReplyDeleteI'm so thankful for your blog it helped me years ago. Adoree is no longer allowed to practice as a cfi due to her horrendous unethical wrong doing.
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