It Gets Harder, Before it Gets Easier

When I went to court, I got annihilated. Not because I was wrong, or even did anything wrong, but because the Magistrate was a former CFI. The CFI assigned to my case was biased and lied a great deal about My character and who I was, and what the children in fact told her. The Magistrate would not allow me to prove the CFI wrong. Even though my evidence was time stamped and dated, I even had evidence that was notarized by Arapahoe County and she would not hear it. The Magistrate tried to insult me, she would not hear what the Children's Counselor had to say, and even, out of all the witnesses I had she still took the CFI's word. After not really hearing my case, the CFI's Lies and the attempt of insult, she gave me a speech on how to be a mother and alienation and it's effects on the kids. Then she pardoned my ex for the domestic violence he committed.

 Now Every chance my ex gets he uses something that was said against me in court to start something with me. It does not work, because I continue to go to Domestic Violence Counseling. Not only that ladies, but that magistrate didn't know me, she didn't try to see the truth, nor did she try to get to know my character. Or the struggles I overcame as a single mother as a domestic abuse victim, whose Domestic abuser did not do squat for his children then, and barely does squat for them now.

 I am a strong woman who still has her head up and may cry in the shadows of the night, but will have justice sooner or later. No one will take that strength from me. Not the CFI, not the magistrate, nor my ex. I am a survivor of Domestic Violence. I am a survivor of Rape by The Arapahoe County Court, and I have not given up. You can report a CFI who has lied in court and not reported in the children's best interest and I intend to. I have reported mine to the Coalition for Domestic Violence, that was my start and they helped me with numbers and names of people who could help me. Don't be a victim. Don't lie down and allow yourself to be abused by your abuser or by the system. You have the right to speak your mind. You have the right to protect Your children. Do it, and never stop. Your children will see in the long run that you did all you could to keep them from harm and love them. I am proud of what I did, I fought for my children. I stood up! I am sad that the system has allowed Domestic Violence to be accepted, and is allowing our children to have to endure it. The Magistrate stated my children will be teenagers soon, but what she doesn't realize is that they can come after her and the system for her neglectful Judgment. Every one has a boss, someone to report to, if they won't listen, climb higher. I intend to. Good Luck Soldiers, and now that you know my story, feel free to leave me yours. You have someone who is listening and working to do something about it........