It's Amazing, Think About This.....

It's Amazing, you endure the physical and the emotional abuse from your batterer and you wonder...


What did I do to deserve this, and finally you figure out you did nothing and it's all him. He is one warped twisted individual, and now his life's goal is to make your life a living hell. So you leave, but you have his Children. Since you are struggling he leaves you with the children alone without any support. 


Then you begin to have support and he wants to enter the children's lives just to mess yours up. You go to court, the court allows the battering to continue, by allowing a CFI to lie, you not to prove your case and then on top of that tell the batterer he's forgiven after putting you down as a mother. It's disgusting!


 Now My batterer seems to think it's okay to throw that day in my face every chance he gets. When things don't go his way, which generally means I am not going above and beyond to make him happy, he threatens court again. Well you know what I am fed up!!!!! Take my tail back to court then. I am no longer your victim and I am going to live my life. I deserve my time with my children as you do your time. 


However I will not be frightened of the court system and allow my batterer to continue to batter me!!!


If you don't want to bring the children home on time, then keep them another day. I am not going to stop what I am doing and come and get them because you changed the schedule around. I am worthy of a life outside of our children, and I no longer have any connection with you!! I will hold my end of the parenting plan and if you cannot hold yours up then, give them to me and when you can come get them on your parenting time let me know. No more will I cater to your schedule, give you extra time, or put up with your excuses. It's not my job!! 


Time to step up Ladies!! YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE THE VICTIM. Call their bluff from time to time, stop being scared.


It's a learning process, I am still learning too. One step at a time. One No at a time. One I am worth it at a time. Believe me, we as women are worth it. When things are broken who has to fix it?? We do. So whether we fix it while being a victim or while loving ourselves, We are much more supportive after loving our selves. This Crap has  to end sometime. 


Think About It!!!!


Aren't You Ready Yet?????