Apparently fact and opinion are two different things. I believe that Mrs. Adoree Blair has been victimizing not only Women, but Men as well, and has been considered unfit to be a CFI, by Almost all counties, if not all counties. Look that up! As a reader and not in my position, you are free to express your negative opinion if you'd like. However changes were made in the care of my children and after the courts crappy support, God prevailed. My Sons both know who their father and Mother are. They are also very functioning young Men in the community. One Stays with me full time and the other jointly. Domestic abuse will start being fought harder, and even though he wasn't convicted, it doesn't mean he shouldn't have been. There are many stories of men who weren't convicted of their abusive crimes and then hurt their partner almost killing them or better yet killing them. I will leave it up to you, if you would like to keep your negative ignorant comment on MY Blog please do so. As far as Adoree Blair she has committed a greater injustice to not only this state, but to this states children as well. As a Victim, I have prevailed and will continue to fight against close minded individuals such as yourself, and the abusers; Men or Women at large. Lastly my advise to you Mr. Hot Head....
Do some research and don't judge with your sexual equipment. That's piece is obviously a no brainer...
JJ
Wednesday, January 14, 2015
Thursday, January 24, 2013
Big Lesson Learned....
It is truly amazing to be free. With that being said, an explanation to follow.
As a good parent, you naturally want what's best for your child, and when someone or something is harming them, you want to rescue them. I fought very hard for my children in court and out. I still fight for my children. I always will, because I love them. That is what a good parent does, no matter what.
At one point a nobody labeled me. That nobody lied to the courts about me, and guess what!? That just made me an even better Mom. I over came her label. I continued to love my children hard, and make good decisions for them. I still listened to their complaints, and the things I could change I did, and the things I couldn't, worked themselves out.
I learned to overcome my fears and stood up several times to my children's father and my abuser.
Even though that Nobody lied to the courts and built the other nobody up, he couldn't keep the lie up too long. My children know who their Sperm Doner is, and all I had to do, is sit back and let him be himself. They will soon be able to decide where they want to be, without having a filter/lier on their Father's side.
Whatever decision they decide to make, I will support them and love them. They know that. I know this, because now they have started to express their love and gratitude. When they need something, they call me. When they have questions they ask me. When they have tough decisions to make, they ask me to work through them with them, and when they don't need me, I take a step back and marvel in the Joy that they are mine. They are living and thriving in my love and the love of their Step Father and siblings. No one will EVER be able to take that away. That pretty picture that was drafted for the Court, was just that. A picture in a delusional mind. The children have gotten the real life experience, and in the end, they know they have always had the same Cheerleader and always will, no one can take that from them.
Research your CFI, know who you are choosing to plan the rest of your Child's life. Many of them have their own agendas. Fortunately for my situation God stepped in and continues to make it right.
JJ
Thursday, November 15, 2012
Please Show Your Support!!!!
I apologize for the short notice, but I wanted to let you all know that the Denise Fansua Domestic Violence Foundation (http://denisedv.org) is hosting a Capitol Rally for VAWA this Friday!
If you are interested/able to attend, please meet at the West Steps of the State Capitol Building on Friday, November 16, 2012 at 11:30 AM. Lunch will be provided for all who attend.
As you all know, we are getting dangerously close to Congress not finishing the Violence Against Women Act. This landmark legislation has been proven to be effective in providing needed support for victims of sexual assault and domestic violence. We need your help to let Congress know that they need to prioritize finishing the legislation now that the elections are over. This year's Senate version extends protections to the GLBT Community, Native American Community, Immigrants, and now prevents organizations that provide services from discriminating based on sexual orientation.
Sincerely,
Amy Miller, MSW
Public Policy Director
Colorado Coalition Against Domestic Violence
1120 Lincoln Street, Suite 900
Denver, CO 80203
Please forward widely!November 14, 2012
· Tell them: “I am your constituent. Now that the elections are over, I urge you to reauthorize the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA)! It has been 679 days since VAWA expired, and 183 days since Congress’s last action on VAWA. Please, show women and victims that you care – pass VAWA now!”
Email: Don’t have time to call? You can also email the short message above to your Members of Congress.Twitter: Do you tweet? Here are a few sample tweets that you can use!@[INSERT YOUR REP’S TWITTER HANDLE] #PassVAWA2012 because victims need safe and affordable housing #dv #VAWA
@[INSERT YOUR REP’S TWITTER HANDLE] #PassVAWA2012 because victims are still being killed by their partners. #dv #VAWA
@[INSERT YOUR REP’S TWIITER HANDLE] #PassVAWA2012 because our shelter serves victims in your community who depend on it!Social MediaBe a part of a ground-breaking campaign to leverage the full power of social media in fighting for theReauthorization of VAWA! Join advocates across the nation in the #PassVAWA2012 Facebook Photo Campaign to tell Congress that it’s time to reauthorize the Violence Against Women Act! It’s easy – just snap photos of you, your friends, and your colleagues holding up signs saying why we need to Pass VAWA NOW! Submit your photos via email to advocacy@nnedv.org and lccref@gmail.com or tweetpic to #PassVAWA2012.The BackgroundYou have worked so hard over the past two years to urge Congress to reauthorize VAWA. Election cycle politics derailed VAWA’s passage and now we have a final opportunity to get this done! Congress needs to hear from you that this is still a priority and that they need to act in the “lame duck” session. With the combination of additional pressure from you throughout November and the work of NNEDV and others at the national level, we believe that it is very likely that Congress will act on VAWA before the end of this session.Thanks you for all that you do!The Policy TeamMonica McLaughlinSenior Public Policy SpecialistNational Network to End Domestic ViolenceMain office: 202.543.5566
Thursday, May 17, 2012
Thank you for your extraordinary advocacy around VAWA’s reauthorization and your work to defeat H.R. 4970, a bill that moves backward on VAWA reauthorization. Although the bill passed in the House (222 to 205) it was a divided and very close vote. This close vote will help to strengthen the voice of victims when the House and Senate bills are reconciled in the conference process and we will continue to work hard to get a VAWA that moves forward.
Our work is not done! Now we must thank those who stood for and with victims of violence and express our disappointment in those who did not and voted to weaken VAWA. We can look forward to the conference process, where we can push to ensure that the vote will more closely reflect the Senate passed S. 1925. Please take the following actions – we have to keep the pressure up to get the best law for victims!
ACTION 1: THANK REPRESENTATIVES WHO VOTED AGAINST H.R. 4970
Now we need to thank Representatives who voted against H.R. 4970. Please call these Representatives and say, “Thank you for listening to the needs of victims and for voting against H.R. 4970. We look forward to your continued leadership as VAWA is addressed in the conference process.”
Click this link to find those who voted “NO” http://clerk.house.gov/evs/
ACTION 2: EXPRESS YOUR DISAPPOINTMENT TO REPRESENTATIVES WHO VOTED YES ON H.R. 4970
Find out if your Representative voted for the flawed H.R.4970 through this link http://clerk.house.gov/evs/
Please call your Representative and say, “I am disappointed in his/her vote on H.R. 4970, a bill that moves backward on VAWA because it rolls back long-standing protections and does not meet the urgent needs of many victims. We urge him/her to support a bipartisan bill that mirrors the Senate passed S. 1925 as the bill moves forward.”
You can also modify and send this Letter to the Editor. This letter is designed for individuals and organizations who voiced their concerns with H.R. 4970 and were disappointed in their Representative’s vote.
Listen to victims – move forward on VAWA
I am writing to express my extreme disappointment in the passage of H.R. 4970 in the U.S. House of Representatives. I called my Representative, XX and urged her/him to vote against this bill which rolls back protections for victims and does not meet the urgent needs of many victims. Not only did my Representative not listen to me, he/she did not listen to any of the thousands of organizations and individuals engaged in the work to end violence against women who urged them to vote against the bill. Many Representatives claimed that the provisions in the Senate bill were included to make this a political fight. As a victim advocate, I have no interest in such a fight. I just want to ensure that all victims are protected from abuse and that perpetrators are held accountable. And make no mistake, H.R. 4970 is not a bill that is supported by my organization and it does not address many of the most pressing needs of victims
The House had the opportunity but failed to take up the bipartisan Senate bill that enjoyed the support of thousands of victim-centered organizations working to end domestic and sexual violence. We urge the House and the Senate to come together to pass a bipartisan bill that builds upon VAWA’s strengths, moves the legislation forward and meets the urgent needs of victims. Victims need VAWA to pass – with protections and services for all!
Monica McLaughlin
Senior Public Policy Specialist
National Network to End Domestic Violence
Cell: 202.251.2191
Main office: 202.543.5566
Tuesday, May 15, 2012
TELL YOUR REPRESENTATIVE TO VOTE NO ON (H.R. 4970) – it STILL weakens the Violence Against Women Act!
While H.R. 4970 will be amended before a vote tomorrow, it STILL rolls back protections and is harmful for victims. We must tell our Representatives that we strongly oppose this bill. The vote could be as early as tomorrow, so now is the time for Representatives to hear from you. If you have called before, please call again to ensure that your Representative knows that H.R. 4970 STILL harms victims.
ACTION 1: CALL EACH U.S. REPRESENTATIVE AND TELL THEM THAT H.R. 4970 STILL HARMS VICTIMS
Message: “H.R. 4970 STILL HARMS victims of violence. We oppose H.R. 4970, even as amended, because it rolls back protections for victims and does not address the needs of all victims. We support a bill like the bipartisan Senate bill that protects Native victims, immigrant victims, LGBT victims and other marginalized communities. The House must must support ALL victims.” Use the Capital switchboard number (202) 224-3121 to be connected.
H.R. 4970 moves VAWA backward – please read and share this New York Times Op Ed - http://www.nytimes.com/2012/
Saturday, May 5, 2012
Mental Health Specialist Gone MENTAL.....
For those females that have no children and bully the children of their mates, that is also abuse or Domestic Violence......
A Mental health specialist should be able to identify someone with these traits or characteristics very easily......
Unless it is not their intent to care for the child, but to cover up for the battering parent. Why do you do it??? Is it Money? Is it Power over the abused?? Are you a batterer too??
Yes you are. You use your power of the system and hide behind your title to batter the stronger person. For your info, if that person is truly strong and has had enough, you might as well kick rocks. I AM NOT AFRAID. The previous blog holds strong.
I am taking a stand for every Mother you have bullied, made false allegations about. Cheated out of the right outcome and on top of that destroyed the family and values that those Mother's children could have had, had they have not trusted you as their cfi, your not even worth the capitol letters......
You are not worth the dirt under my fingernails.....
Ladies and Gentlemen hold your head high and fight for your children. YOU are their ONLY Advocate, don't let anyone fool you into thinking, they have the best interest in your children. When MONEY comes into play, your children are just another commodity.
Parents know their children's worth, and unfortunately batterers know how to pull the true parent down, With their children. SAD, but it can change, look at the last couple of blogs, WE can make a change, by NOT BEING AFRAID.
CONTINUE TO ADVOCATE FOR YOUR CHILDREN, YOU ARE TRULY THE ONLY ONE WHO CARES.........
JJ
A Mental health specialist should be able to identify someone with these traits or characteristics very easily......
Unless it is not their intent to care for the child, but to cover up for the battering parent. Why do you do it??? Is it Money? Is it Power over the abused?? Are you a batterer too??
Yes you are. You use your power of the system and hide behind your title to batter the stronger person. For your info, if that person is truly strong and has had enough, you might as well kick rocks. I AM NOT AFRAID. The previous blog holds strong.
I am taking a stand for every Mother you have bullied, made false allegations about. Cheated out of the right outcome and on top of that destroyed the family and values that those Mother's children could have had, had they have not trusted you as their cfi, your not even worth the capitol letters......
You are not worth the dirt under my fingernails.....
Ladies and Gentlemen hold your head high and fight for your children. YOU are their ONLY Advocate, don't let anyone fool you into thinking, they have the best interest in your children. When MONEY comes into play, your children are just another commodity.
Parents know their children's worth, and unfortunately batterers know how to pull the true parent down, With their children. SAD, but it can change, look at the last couple of blogs, WE can make a change, by NOT BEING AFRAID.
CONTINUE TO ADVOCATE FOR YOUR CHILDREN, YOU ARE TRULY THE ONLY ONE WHO CARES.........
JJ
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